GRACE NOTES

A powerful account of a mother’s life, narrated in verse by award-winner Nye, the former Young People’s Poet Laureate.

Nye describes small meaningful moments from major events in the life of her late mother, Miriam Naomi Allwardt Shihab. The opening poem introduces Miriam, explaining how she met Nye’s Palestinian immigrant father in Kansas, marrying him only three months later. Subsequent entries delve into Miriam’s mental health, which was affected by her rigid upbringing (“Her parents were tightly closed German boxes”); Miriam struggled with depression later in life (“You could never tell your friends. / Before I was born, my mama tried to die”). On the subject of her parents’ marital conflict, Nye notes that “children who live in sad houses / hope to fix things.” However, the poems also uphold Miriam’s profoundly positive impact as a mother who passed on her global awareness and empathy, passion for the arts, and respect for diversity: “She never thought she was / the center of the world.” Understanding her mother’s mysteries becomes a quest for Nye to both understand herself and appreciate Miriam more deeply: “Maybe we are all born from our mother’s kilns,” she states in her introduction. Her writing dwells upon the secret mysteries of our lives and the grace it takes to forgive and love others. Through this intimate and compassionate exploration of one woman’s life, readers receive an invitation to contemplate human interconnectedness.

Beautifully written poetry about the butterfly effect of human experience.